Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Family Business part one

For those of you who read this blog regularly but don't know a lot about me will learn something new tonight.  I currently live in Brooklyn, NY and my family has its own business. 
We are in the Creative World and we create Art, mostly visual but not exclusively. 
The artist in our family is Mr. Laolu Senbanjo.
If you've never been to our site you should check it out here:
I'm about to do a shameless plug, which might not be that shameless because this is my blog afterall. 
So this is a sneak peek at Laolu's latest Series, "Take a Walk in my Soles."
Watch out world because nothing is safe anymore. 
Laolu will draw on just about anything, including your don't say I didn't warn you!


Take a Walk in Laolu's SOLES!

Limited Edition Artistic Series

Laolu has decided to take his Art literally everywhere. He says that no place is safe, not even shoes.  He's made several pairs of one of kind shoes that each foot has its own story.  You can walk in these shoes and share their story with the world.  Some of the feet even have Yoruba Proverb art on them.

Shoes start at $150 and are only available for a limited time.  You can order them through the form on the website or email

ome and get your own pair just for you today.  Get a piece of Art to share with the world and support African Art and a family business.


ps.  If you are interested go to this link and fill out the form to buy:

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Assorted Meat - the Web Series

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So I know everyone has been talking about the latest web series that can only be seen on youtube, Assorted Meat.  Now, I won't lie to you all.  Afterall, I am biased more than a little bit because I am lucky to be attached to one of the actors involved, but if you've met me in real life you know that I am an opinionated woman and am a tell it like it is kinda woman.

This series is definitely worth the watch.  Now I know that Oluseyi won't be happy with what I am about to say, because no one really wants to be criticized but, this show is really really good, although I'd change some things around, but overall it's very funny, interesting, love the topics, the characters and I get excited each week to watch. 

Have you seen Assorted Meat, yet?  What are your thoughts?  Who are your favorite characters?  What would you like to see done differently?  Does it seem realistic to you?  Yes or no?
I can't wait to hear all of your thoughts.  In case you haven't had the chance to check it out, click here:

Good night and happy binge watching!

You can find out more info on and click acting.  

Upcoming African Musical Festival: AfroDreamFest comes to NYC

I am pleased to announce to you that AfroDreamFest is bringing itself to New York City this year.  I am thrilled to be assisting with this event.  It's going to be A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! 

Let me not be too wordy (as I usually am) and let me get right to the nitty gritty.

What:  AfroDreamFest 2015 in NYC
May 22nd @ Meridian 23 (161 W 23rd St, New York, NY) 7:30 pm - wee hours of the morning
May 23rd @ Silvana (300 W 116th St, New York, NY) 8 - 10 pm.

Who (this list is not complete, it is ongoing):
Eli Fola (AfroJazz)
Tosinger (Folk/R&B)
Ayanbinrin (Talking Drum)
OgaSilachi (AfroR&B)
Laolu & the Afromysterics (Afrobeat, Soul, Reggae)

AfroDreamFest is a celebration of African music and features African musicians from both the continent and the diaspora.  Check back soon and I'll be posting more about all the artists involved!

To get your early bird ticket from me!!! email me at or go to eventbrite

More info is at or

Come check out some amazing African music in New York!

Don't forget to come say hi if you come by!

Follow us at @afrodreamfest on twitter and instagram. 

Upcoming African Event in Brooklyn: Jojo Abot first heard about Jojo a few months back.  When I first listened to her music, I described her music to a friend as the African Bjork.  I have yet to tell her that to her face, but I see that as a compliment.  Go check out her show!  You won't regret it.  

Come Check out Jojo Abot Ghanaian Singer-Songwriter this Wednesday May 13th at Meridian 23 (161 W 23rd St, New York, NY) featuring Nigerian MoRuf (opening).  Tickets are $15.

More info at

Go check out this cool venue, this amazing music, and tell them that Kate aka Moremi sent you!

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Why do so many people think Nigerians cannot speak English?

This post should be directed at Americans, but when I reflect on this topic, many non-Americans also have issues with understanding that Nigerians speak English as well (such as Germans, Koreans, Indians, and Brits).

Ok, so here's why I bring this up.  A friend of mine who's Indian (India Indian) American (born in the states and grew up in NY) and works with lots of Nigerians asked me about a friend who's Nigerian and asked if he can speak English.  I was like, "yes, of course.  English is the national language of Nigeria." She was like, 'yeah, but where he grew up, do they speak English?"  I was like, "yes, I have never even heard him speak in Yoruba come to think of it, I'm not even sure he can."

I was absolutely flabbergasted, like for real.  I mean, ok, I'm from a very small town in Minnesota, so I get that someone from my hometown or somewhere similar might think something so ridiculous, or even a White person from a city, okay, I'll let it slide, there are many ignorant people out there.  But she is Indian, who's boss is a Yoruba Nigerian man, whom she's friends with, so like, wtf, like, really?  I was appalled and embarrassed for her.

Nigeria is not francophone Africa.  I am pretty sure she knows this.  Nigeria had the brain drain in the 70's and 80's and therefore many of my professors at my university were Nigerians.  Nigerians are smart.  They are spread throughout the world in many different occupations and they all speak English, most not even with a strong accent, not nearly as strong as the average Indian, if I might add.  I am not Nigerian, not by birth anyway, and not technically anyway, but I do love Nigeria for all it's shortcomings, I do love this country and consider it my second home and I am offended when people do not think that Nigerians can speak English.

When I lived in Yola, yes, most people do not speak English, they speak Hausa, Fulfulde and other languages, but some did speak English.  I know that probably got even better as the University became larger, but that is the North and most Americans are unlikely to encounter a Northern Nigerian person in their lifetime, let alone one that doesn't speak English, unless they happen to find themselves in Nigeria, and at that point, they will know that Nigerians do speak English.

I mean, hello.  All those Princes that email you everyday claiming to have millions of dollars that they want to send to you write to you in English, abi???  lol.

Anyways, that's my rant for tonight.  I am always shocked by the ignorance of this world.  But then again, I had to google the meaning of chivalry a few days ago because I honestly did not know the actual definition.  But at least I admitted I didn't know it!

I digress. 

AfroDreamFest NYC 2015

AfroDreamFest 2015 will be hosted this year in New York City with an amazing lineup.  More info to be had here at: and your tickets can be had here:
or email me at for tickets as well. 

AfroDreamFest is an annual touring concert that celebrates and promotes neo Afro-fusion genres of music from the African continent and in the diaspora to celebrate African Liberation Day (May 25) ! Previous ones were held in Atlanta and Houston and they were an awesome experience for both the artists and the afromusic loving audience!!! We are coming to NYC this year.
Afrodreamfest NYC 2015
TWO Venues/ TWO Dates - Make your choice or come to both for good measure :) 
7.30 pm Friday, May 22 Meridian 23
161 W 23rd St, New York, NY 10011 
7.30pm Saturday, May 23 Silvana
300 W 116th St, New York, NY 10026

Featuring Afrobeat band Laolu and The Afromysterics, Afrosoul/folk artist Tosinger, AfroRnB artist Ogasilachi , Afro Jazz Artist Eli Fola and Ayanbinrin- Africa's foremost female Talking Drummer

Getting back on track...

So life in New York is always crazy.  Like always.  This is good and bad.  You have to surrender to this city sometimes and just accept that you will always be busy and that you need to pick and choose what you want to do and how to live your life or you will go CRAZY!  I mean, there's crazy and then there's CRAZY!

With that said, although you have to surrender to New York, which I have surrendered to her majesty, you also need to learn how to not allow her to consume you, she can be like the ocean and swallow you up whole.  Currently, I am not a hundred percent happy with my situation in life.  This is for many many reasons.  One, I am not completely happy with my eating habits and my weight/body image.  Having a baby does things to your body, things that no woman talks about, things I cannot explain and I currently don't know how to deal with.  Two, I am not cooking enough and this makes me unhappy.  Cooking brings me joy.  So I am going to start cooking again soon and begin another round of the whole 30 or gluten free month or something like it.  Three, I have started to yoga again and need to keep this up. 

Routine used to be so important to me.  I have some routines currently but most of them are forced upon me, not by choice.  But I must begin to have some routine in my life again, but the routine will be of things I love and choose. 

I am also reading currently two different books for my book clubs. 

Book One:  The Folded Clock, A Diary by Heidi Julavits (for my Summer 2013 Cortelyou Moms book club).  This is a closed group.  The reading of this book is going very slow but I hope it picks up. 

Book Two:  The Fishermen by Chigozie Obioma (for my African Art and Culture in Brooklyn and beyond meetup group.  This is open to the public.  join us!)  This is actually my meetup group that I started.  This is one of the many things that keeps me busy here in Brooklyn. 

What are you reading?  Please comment!

If you are in NY, how do you avoid being swallowed whole by her majesty?

Sunday, April 26, 2015

This Nigerian Life in Brooklyn

So I need to seriously update my blog.  This has needed to happen ages ago but lots of things have prevented this from happening, mostly, motherhood, our family business, and following our passions.  However, one of my main passions is writing and this blog is one of those things.

When I first moved back stateside I didn't know how long I'd be back in the US.  I am a bit surprised that it is as long as it's been (almost two years now) but nevertheless we're happy in Brooklyn.  I was asked what I am going to do with my blog?  Well, the truth is I started it for many reasons and I just borrowed the title and amended from my favorite radio show, This American Life.

So... With that said, I do plan on revamping this blog and writing much more often.  My goal is to be writing at least weekly because I do realize that people actually read this stuff.  I have SOOOO much knowledge, information and stories to share.

My blog will always have stories about my life, places I enjoy to eat, shop and go too both here in Brooklyn and in Nigeria.  It will always have a more Nigeriancentric focus because my own life has that too.

Look forward to many upcoming posts on the best places to buy ankara in Brooklyn, the best Nigerian restaurants in New York, the best places to meet other Nigerians in NY, the best place to do the shoki at and much more.

I don't claim to know it all but I do claim to be a lover of sharing information for all to enjoy!

Also, please do comment.  I have been busy posting them tonight.  Go back and read some old posts and check out the comments.  It's enjoyable.  Lol.


Kate aka Moremi

Sunday, February 22, 2015

The sad state of medical affairs

This morning I read on a friend's fb tl that her hubby was extremely ill and would be medi-evac'ed out of Nigeria to... wait for it,  Kenya.  Now I do know I've been out of Nigeria for a minute but how on Earth did Kenya become better for medical treatment than Nigeria? What is going on in Nigeria that Kenya is now a better place to receive health care? I hope some of you respond and comment on this because I'm so sad. Is this possibly true?

Has Nigeria's health care system really gotten this poor? Is Kenya that much better? Any experiences? I'm very curious to hear your thoughts.

Good night. 

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Laolu @ Meridian 23

Tonight at Meridian 23,  161 W 23rd St, New York City,  Laolu and the Afromysterics will be performing two sets,  followed by DJ Eli Fola.  Tickets are just $10. Come show us some love ya'll.  Amazing original Afrobeat,  Reggae and AfroSoul by Laolu Senbanjo.  Check them out at

The Power of Yahoogroups

So in my lifetime,  I've been so blessed.  People have mostly blessed me with information, that information has led me to some great successes and continues to do so.  One thing at the heart of my success has always been,  yahoogroups,  oddly enough.  I don't like yahoo mail, never have, never really used it much but all the yahoogroups that I've been part of,  still am part of have been instrumental to me success in life.

Yahoogroups have given me friends,  housing,  jobs,  things,  beds,  cribs,  and much more when I needed them. My yahoogroups connection once gave me 3 job interviews the same day I learnt I was being laid off.  When I lost my housing yahoogroups helped take me in within hours.  When I was in transit and needed things that I couldn't easily access because they were in storage again, it was yahoogroups that helped me.

The other day, I needed a crockpot because I had a crockpot emergency (that's a story for another day) and it again it was my yahoogroups that saved the day.

Yahoogroups are kind of like phantoms.  You can't really see anyone (not like Facebook or instagram), it doesn't judge you,  but you just post to a group and people post back.  Simple.  Lovely.  Beautiful. I love my yahoogroups.

I'm going to take time right now to thank them. 
Thank you to the abuja_expats yahoogroup, without you there would never have been a Kate in Abuja.  There may not even be this blog for that matter!
Thanks so much to CortelyouMoms yahoogroup and flatbushfamilynetwork yahoogroup, right now I'd probably be in Jersey if not for you!

Yahoogroups has changed my life.  Taught me so much.  Taught me that there are so many good people in this world.  Taught me that I should appreciate all that I have and give back when I can. I'm truly blessed.  I love my community.  Flatbush is the best.  Brooklyn is so much better because of this real community.

Yahoo, you may not be Google,  but in some ways,  your way better!

Thanks for listening.

Much love,


What are you waiting for? Go search for the yahoogroup that will save your life!

Friday, January 16, 2015

We need to speak up about the situation in Nigeria.

The time is now,  to speak up about the atrocities that are occurring in Nigeria.  We cannot sit and wait and hear about more lives lost.  The West cares, sometimes,  but that doesn't matter.  We protested and matched when the girls went missing but now that they are mostly still missing and now that upwards to 3000 lives were taken last week in Baga,  now what? Do we match? Do we cry? What can we do? I cannot take up arms and fly to Borno, nor can hardly anyone for that matter.  So what can we do?

I know I have a voice.  I'm going to use it.  I'm going to talk. I'm going to discuss with everyone I know.  I'm going to share my experiences about living in the North of Nigeria and how much I loved it.  Now,  my version of Nigeria is dead.

Please share my video.  Get people talking.  Follow me on Twitter @katehallet on instagram @katehallet
let's get people talking!
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